No well-adjusted person should be unable to tell the difference between pornography and real life. No well-adjusted man or woman should be unable to tell the difference between the perverted thinking of a potential or actual sexual violator and the thinking that produces reasonable, sociable assumptions. Sanguinetti certainly can’t. And policemen and women who can’t are a particular and crucial problem.
But men, generally, are not the problem. Considering the flood of fantastical sexual messages they are fed by the media, they show themselves to be notably resilient and sensitive. That unlocked door? Hundreds or thousands will walk right past. But some bastard might come along who won’t. Door locked, door unlocked, burglary is burglary is burglary. And only burglars, by definition, commit it.
Sexual fantasy and sexual reality are not the same thing
(Source: Guardian)